- Other Emotional Issues
- Anger Management
- Getting over a gang rape--including a follow-up
- EFT alleviates horrendous self-hatred and rage
- Calming down Teddy, an emotionally disturbedboy
- EFT for anger underlying ALS
- Releasing anger at parents allowed healing of ulcerative colitis and headaches
- Suppressed anger expelled via the stomach
- EFT for self righteous anger
- Intuitional work with anger
- A First Class use of Surrogate EFT for Bill's anger and behavior issues
- EFT Transforms "hopping-mad" anger
- An unusual anger release
- Anger in a homeless shelter
- A murderous rage is calmed with EFT
- Josh: Building rapport with children--anger & behavior problems.
- EFT for anger helps both Ann and her angry husband--note the surrogate approach
- Unbearable hatred toward classmates
- Anger and Hostility are Proven to Damage Lungs; Simple Acupressure Technique Offers a Solution
- Anger case history from a client
- EFT for workplace anger
- EFT and severe mental illness--a murderous impulse
- An interesting approach to EFT and road rage
- Using EFT for on-the-spot "hopping mad" anger
- Surrogate EFT for fighting neighbors
- Brandon's Story--anger problem becomes history: (including an update at the end)
- EFT for deep seated anger
- EFT resolves long term resentment
- The EFT Cooling Tower Technique for Letting off Steam
- Anger management approach for a polarity responder
- The cause of our anger isn't always as it appears
- A client talks about her abusive childhood and her relief via EFT
- Resentments relieved 22 years after a poor birthing experience
- Stubborn anger issue falls to 0 with emphatic "say what you feel" wording.
- Road Rage and hives disappear in one session after getting to the core issue
- Press Release: Can a One-Minute Anger Management Technique Reduce Injury Risk and Chronic Illness?
- Releasing anger patterns with EFT
- A client resolves lifelong anger on her own
- Clearing anger and self loathing with EFT via introduction to inner child
- School Counselor on anger and tension,
- Getting behind a successful EFT anger case
- New Technique Helps Avoid Heart Damage by Diffusing Anger Within Marital Arguments
- The client who continually felt resentful
- Employee overcomes anger at supervisor
- Jonas uses EFT for deeper meditation - dangerous PSA reading is now only 0.4
- Using EFT to self-calm an intense anger tantrum
- Useful thoughts on anger by Stewart Robertson
- Football Star Uses New Acupressure Technique to Calm his Road Rage -- No Drugs Needed
- Transgender person with abusive mother relieves rage with EFT
- Anger case--the urge to explode
- Even dropping the kids off at school provides tapping opportunities - an anger issue
- A successful but involved depression case--"I don't want to tell you how well I'm doing"
- EFT resolves 12 years of postnatal depression
- What was REALLY causing Anne's depression?
- EFT student eases his wife's suicidal thoughts
- Louella: Depression, pesticides and low blood sugar
- Surrogate tapping and its effect on depression.
- Persistent EFT by Email on depression, anger and anxiety
- Cross dressing, sexuality and depression
- Long term severe depression gone in ten minutes
- Jaqui Crooks used EFT to overcome her Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Maggie eliminates her own depression
- A textbook depression case--a "one minute wonder" complete with belief changes
- Approaching Depression with the Tearless Trauma Technique
- After 15 years of therapy, including shock therapy, EFT helps release depression
- A case that didn't work--and some suggestions
- A first class look at using EFT for a complex case - depression, guilt, grief and abandonment
- Was it really a manic/depressive disorder?
- Depression with numerous underlying issues
- Major results for anxiety, depression and social issues from one thorough EFT session and consistent EFT "homework"
- Success with a skeptical, depressed scientist - follow up included
- Depression, low self esteem and childhood traumas
- Persistence and a challenging case - Incest, abuse, depression, anxiety attacks, nightmares and flashbacks
- A mis-diagnosed manic/depressive disorder
- Newbie uses EFT on depression, allergic reactions and more
- Hair loss and facial blemishes fade after EFT relieves important emotional issues -- Depression too!
- Adrienne, a physician
- Gary discusses depression and some new ideas
- A non-therapist does superb work on depression--including her own.
- Press Release: New Method for Depression Often Works When Nothing Else Will
- 30+ years of depression gone in 2 minutes
- EFT saves a life by rapidly resolving suicidal depression
- Depression and confusion about God
- EFT on personal depression--"I was angry at myself"
- Depression Drugs and Migraine Drugs Don't Always Do The Job
- Dr. Patricia Carrington on depression--a detailed discussion, including meds
- Depression, height phobia and claustrophobia eliminated in one session
- Depression related to guilt
- When depression comes from a related issue
- EFT instead of shock treatments?
- From depressed and suicidal ... to ... "I laugh all the time
- Depression on Death Row
- EFT Newcomer eliminates his own deep depression and anxiety disorder
- An intimate look at Depression
- Panic And Anxiety
- Getting to the core of "Mark's" anxiety
- EFT for overeating and panic attacks
- Performance anxiety at a music camp
- Gayla uses EFT for panic
- Travel Anxiety--using the Tell the Story Technique
- Febrile convulsions and related panic attacks subside--not one attack in the two years since she learned to use EFT
- Successful surrogate tapping for surgery anxiety
- Persistence and Panic Attacks - Quality results on a stubborn issue
- Husband relieves wife of major panic attack
- EFT newcomer rids himself of social anxiety
- Relief for another stress related cough
- Using EFT for panic when nobody is around
- New Method for Treating Anxiety Works When Conventional Treatments Fail
- Clearing social anxiety with EFT
- Two surrogate tapping cases: Dental anxiety and severe stomach ache
- Panic Attacks: Getting behind the thought process
- Current "in your face" anxiety and stress case
- EFT makes good progress with panic, agoraphobia and feeling like a failure
- Detective work crucial in relief for panic attacks
- Combining EFT with the Inner Theater approach for panic attacks
- Testing your EFT work: Feeling trapped and panic attacks
- A Quality "How To Do It" Session for Fear and Anxiety
- Diagnosed as a schizophrenic, Gregoire had anxiety, stress and insomnia
- Medical school test anxiety--from C's and D's to A's and B's
- Success story with 10 day anxiety attack
- Sports anxiety, heat sensitivity, being away from home, loneliness, fear of insects.
- 20 year old abduction anxiety calmed with EFT
- Collapsing a client's anxiety from the 9/11 disaster--with 4 year follow-up
- Anxiety and the fear of being alone
- EFT student uses tapping to immediately calm down after a major car accident
- Using EFT for a client who feels out of control.
- One EFT round with Deborah's daughter relieves performance anxiety
- Surgery anxiety and EFT
- EFT helps adult learners overcome school and math anxiety
- EFT on a case of extreme separation anxiety in a dog and the importance of Core Issues for Animals
- Study Shows Simple Drug-Free Acupressure Technique Reduces Dental Anxiety
- Detective work provides help for an anxiety disorder
- Imagination tapping on the finger points reduces stress level to zero
- Newcomer uses EFT to collapse his own panic-attacks and writes letter to "Quackwatch"
- A detailed panic attack case
- Eric Robins, MD and Lisa Cox on surgery anxieties
- Severe anxiety client has his life back
- EFT Newbie resolves her own major trip anxiety
- Panic attacks and heart palpitations subside after doing EFT on dreams
- Anxiety, eating and more
- Success in neutralizing unwanted memories without the client disclosing the content
- One EFT phone session resolves driving test anxiety -- and the benefits expand
- Panic attacks and fear of darkness
- Addressing Generalized Anxiety Disorder by aiming EFT at specific events
- Non-therapist relieves stress in the form of a temper tantrum
- EFT for panic attacks
- Who Would Have Thought That Acupressure Could Relieve Social Anxiety Better Than Drugs or Therapy?
- Daddy left me. Will my new boyfriend leave me too?
- Courtroom anxiety AND anxiety about calling employers
- Daily tapping for Panic Attacks
- Anxiety related to atrial fibrillation is calmed with EFT
- Performance anxiety and many aspects
- EFT brings relief for trauma, anxiety, and an overactive bladder, all in less than an hour
- Test anxiety
- Using EFT for Social Anxiety Disorder
- Surgeon Uses New Acupressure Technique to Lower Surgery Risk
- Overcoming Test Anxiety with New Drug-Free Technique: 80% Success Rate
- OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
- A grief case with many aspects
- Uncontrollable grief resolved with EFT
- Attorney helps client by using EFT for long term unresolved grief
- Relieving grief over the death of Higgins the dog
- When certain music triggers grief and sadness
- Freedom from grief in only 15 minutes
- Using EFT for Bereavement
- EFT turns grief into beauty
- EFT eliminates unnecessary grief emotions and softens the grieving process - includes 2 month follow up
- EFT brings healing to a whole family while one woman heals her grief
- Community relief from grief with EFT
- This new Widow was helped in many ways by EFT
- EFT for grief and pet loss
- Getting to important emotions by doing EFT while looking in the mirror
- Tapping through grief leads to incredible insight and relief
- EFT for pain and grief for a birth mother who wasn't allowed to see her child -- a touching story with a happy ending
- An easy grief case with an aspect that showed up later
- Imaginary tapping sends grief away
- EFT setup statements for grief
- Fresh grief and a double benefit.
- Grief changes to smiles
- EFT may be a great relief to grief-stricken nurses who lose patients
- Using EFT to improve a relationship
- EFT, One Minute Wonders and Opening to Love
- EFT by telephone smoothes out a tense family reunion
- Insights into picking up another person
- EFT heals a broken heart in rapid time
- Relationships, EFT and Spirituality
- Improve relationships by Tapping in the Positive
- Using EFT for relationship issues--a detailed case
- Tapping on relationship issues
- Interesting way to use EFT & Tappy Bear for a broken heart
- "I didn't like kissing my wife after she drank coffee."
- Jack improves his relationship with his grandson using surrogate EFT
- Addressing relationship and family issues by tapping on photographs
- Tapping into a state of Love
- EFT resolves a 10 year heartbreak
- Relationship Issue: "My husband was being a jerk"
- Using EFT to prepare for a difficult encounter
- How clearing an intense cough led to improved family relationships--an EFT two-for-one EFT benefit
- MD introduces an innovative idea that brings relief for stubborn relationship issue
- Finding the love you want by healing the inner child
- Relationship issue: A humorous approach
- What holds you back from your lover?
- EFT is instrumental in bringing a couple back together
- Relationships - on "Being Right"
- Instant relationship fix?
- Using EFT for a Broken Heart
- The Healing Power of Forgiveness
- Love, Intuition, Patience and EFT help a schizophrenic 15 year old.
- EFT for Couples
- Combining role playing with EFT for relationships and other issues
- Relationship success after finding core issue
- EFT to heal family relationships
- Using EFT on "blocking thoughts" to good relationships
- Surrogate EFT heals a broken heart for a 16 year old boy
- Retired Stanford professor fixes his wife's computer with EFT
- Shared tapping provides benefits for relationship issues
- EFT Instead of the psych ward after a relationship breaks up
- Taking relationships work to a new level--The Odd Couple
- EFT and meditation for a broken heart
- EFT for love pain
- Reframes (seeing things differently) for guilt, shame and sorrow
- Restless leg syndrome linked to guilt - 20 years of restlessness gone in 2 sessions
- How to reduce guilt via an EFT "Tapping Circle" -- keeping privacy for everyone
- The "Tapping the System" Technique
- The Rolling EFT process
- Using EFT for unnecessary guilt - Did EFT get someone's husband to cook dinner?
- How Guilt and Shame Block the Law of Attraction
- Stubborn guilt finally subsides after doing a search on our website and DVDs for ideas
- EFT and infertility
- A bout of cystitis turns out to be a bout of guilt
- Writing a letter
- New Acupressure Discovery Reduces Stress 4 Ways: 80% Success Rate
- Many Stressed Women Abandon Healthy Lifestyle Habits: Simple Acupressure Technique Offers a Solution
- To Physicians: New Discoveries in Acupressure Promise Everything From Alertness to Pain and Stress Management
- A new do-it-yourself approach to acupressure alleviates stress and, in turn neutralizes cold, flu an
- Psychotherapy Dramatically Improved By New 'Acupuncture Without Needles' Technique
- Eating Disorders
- Two Year Bulimia Problem Gets Major Assist in One Hour
- A Bulimia "one session wonder"
- Bulimia in Brazil
- "Acceptance Tapping" - A powerful EFT treatment variation for severe compulsive disorders and bulimia.
- Joe resolves his Anorexia...and more
- Love, diligence and an eating disorder
- Michal describes what it is like to be free from an eating disorder
- Anger Management
Panic And Anxiety
Newcomer uses EFT to collapse his own panic-attacks and writes letter to "Quackwatch"
Note: This is one of 3,000 articles written prior to the updated Gold Standard (Official) EFT Tapping Tutorial™. It provides practical uses for EFT Tapping and most EFT'ers should find it very helpful. However, if your benefits are temporary or a more in-depth approach is needed, you are urged to (1) consult The Gold Standard EFT Tapping Tutorial, (2) Explore our newest advancement, Optimal EFT, by reading our free e-book, The Unseen Therapist, and/or (3) get help from a Certified EFT Practitioner.
You should find this interesting.
It is common for completely new innovations to have skeptics ... and EFT is no exception. Interestingly, those opposed to EFT and its many cousins have one thing in common, namely, they have not taken the time to get adequate training in the process. Accordingly, they have not properly applied it to 50 or so people to get a good sense of what is happening.
Instead, with little or no training, they attack the theory and try to attribute all the impressive results to such things as distraction, power of suggestion, placebo and other equally uninformed labels. This is done despite the thousands of reports from around the world regarding unheard of successes (from highly credentialed psychologists, MD's, etc.). I know that sounds silly, but that is what is being done.
One such group of skeptics is QuackWatch.com. If you visit their web site you will see that they make concerted efforts to "debunk" just about everything.
Paul Gray, as you will see in his letter below, wrote to QuackWatch as a newcomer to EFT. He discusses how he tried many procedures for his panic-attacks and, for the first time ever, achieved impressive success. Apparently this result, together with thousands of other reports coming in from around the world, was lost on QuackWatch.
I thought you might like to read his letter.
P.S. Paul received many letters after this article appeared on our email list. Most of them asked for more details about what he did and Paul graciously answered them. Those questions and answers appear just after Paul's letter to Quackwatch below.
Dear Sir [QuackWatch],
I found your site through searching on Google for opinions on Energy therapy. I agree with your comment that there are way too many sites pushing the benefits of alternative medicine/ therapy and not many that expose the down sides/ charlatans. I am glad your site exists. I am in no way informed enough or qualified enough to debate any comments made on your site.
However, in case you might be interested. I believe self administered EFT has cured me of a 15 year panic disorder.
Since first experiencing 'out of the blue' anxiety attacks with subsequent high levels of general anxiety and agoraphobia, I have tried standard talk therapy with a trained psychotherapist, talk therapy with a clinical psychologist, hypnotherapy, counseling, Transcendental Meditation, muscle relaxation techniques and breathing exercises. I have also used two herbs: valerian and kava kava. The only thing that ever helped me with the panic attacks was kava. Oh and my GP sent me to a local clinic when they first started where I was given a brief rundown of the fight or flight response and wished the best of luck.
Over the years, I have purchased books that are often written by Doctors, psychologist etc. that claim to stop panic attacks. I have visited therapists that clearly know a lot less about the disorder and various advances/treatments than I myself do. I have learned to be wary.
So when I heard about EFT, the only reason I tried it was that it was free. I figured that if the inventor will let you download the full manual for free then a) it's worth a go and b) he may not be another get rich quick charlatan.
I studied the manual and started applying EFT for my current anxiety and my past anxiety. Also, any old memories that do or may hold negative emotions. Within a day it was as if all the power of the attacks had gone and my general anxiety was at a zero. I have been testing myself by doing things that I have avoided for years. Like going to the gym. Using trains. Driving on motorways. My mind is sometime still on these problems. I have not been distracted. Its just that the anxiety doesn't come. I can even consciously worry a bit that it might, and it still doesn't come. Its as if it has been cut off at source.
If this is the power of suggestion. I wonder why other more conventional and expensive therapies didn't "suggest" it to me.
If it is placebo effect. Then I'll take it! It's about time a placebo worked for me.
Questions and Answers regarding Paul's methods
Paul here from the UK. I hope you are well. I just wanted to let you know I have had numerous requests for advice regarding beating panic attacks with EFT. I have put together some info on what I did and used and am sending you a copy
Hi everyone. Since Gary's newsletter came out last week regarding my success using EFT for my anxiety issues. I have had many, many emails from well wishers and people struggling with anxiety/panic disorder. The questions range from asking for setup statements to a general how did you do it. I thought it would be best to answer the questions as I go along and then give an example of what I did and still do.
The first thing I would say is that whilst the free manual is an excellent resource to get one started on using EFT and whilst panic attacks and anxiety disorder are often a complicated sets of issues, I would advise where possible to obtain the videos of Gary's course. These will give you a much better practical insight into dealing with many different aspects and the skill in being specific. However great results have come from using just the manual.
Those that haven't actually read the manual. Download it, read it all. And print and keep pages 20-28 for quick reference.
Lorraine asked: What series of tapping sequences did you use to rid yourself of anxiety & panic? Such as, did you start with the tapping under the eyebrow, then under the eye, side of head, etc?
Answer : Yes. Exactly. The normal sequence as set out in the free manual. However I sometimes just tapped on a couple of points when doing my EFT anxiety work 'out in the field' so to speak. Under eye and collarbone point seems to work well to release tension for a quick fix.
Did you tap before the panic or during?
Answer: Others might disagree but with my dealing with EFT and anxiety. I have kind of split my self-therapy into two types. One is where I sit at home nice and relaxed with a notepad. ( to jot down any ideas and aspects that pop into my head whilst I'm tapping on an issue. I don't have much emotional feeling for any of my memories so everyday I do 10 minutes on whatever seems relevant. The other is where I put myself into situations that make me anxious/panic. Then of course I get emotional intensity and by tapping on that. I find I can get better-hidden aspects to surface. Now if you're in a panicky situation you don't always want to be tapping on an old memory. So I tap on the generally feeling of anxiety. I feel that this is still being specific as the emotional intensity is so strong that I am specifically tapping on that dread feeling we get. But also in that specific situation. In fact a few weeks ago I was sitting watching TV and started to feel just little bit anxious. I could only describe it as feeling a bit UGGHH! So I tapped on. Even though I feel a bit UGGHH .
Teri asked: I was wondering if you went to a therapist doing EFT or did it yourself?
I did it myself. I certainly would see a therapist. But I would have to be sure of their experience and or credentials dealing with both panic disorder and EFT.
I still have anxiety and agoraphobia. Any suggestions????
Yes stick with it. I hope this info will help.
I tried EFT previously approximately for a period of one month on and off, but did not see any results. I was just wondering if you have any information or advice in regards to how you helped yourself through EFT.
Answer: Hopefully some of the points raised here will be of benefit to you.
I've tried eft but maybe Im doing it wrong. Can you help?
Answer: I've spoken to Julie directly via email as she is in the UK we are going to do some EFT together on the phone.
Can you tell me what your setup statement was (or were)? Did you have? Specific statements for specific situations (e.g. "Trains", 'Motorways' etc.)? Any insights?
Yes. I do have specific statements for specific situations. When working on past issues I might say. "Even though I was scared stiff when I crashed my blue escort". I tap on that and see what feelings come up. If any, I write them down, change my statement and deal with the next one. But not till I have done a few rounds on other negative emotions regarding the first one. I.e. "even though I felt guilty about crashing my blue escort" or felt embarrassed etc. As I don't get much emotion. I stomp all over the issue in the hope that it clears.
When working on the here and now anxiety triggers. I focus on something that I know might have caused me anxiety. E.g.: driving on motorways. I might say. "Even though I feel anxious driving on motorways.","Even though when I get tense on motorways I think I will pass out.","Even though I am scared ill have a heart attack on the motorway."
Now some might well raise an eyebrow at my methods here. Because EFT is all about getting rid of the fear before you expose yourself to it. Which is great if you can do it. Or can feel it. However the huge amount of mails I got from panic disorder sufferers made me think that we might just have to go that extra mile. So and this is what worked for me:
You could say I combined EFT with exposure therapy for some of my anxiety triggers. For example. Driving on motorway always a problem for me. So as my general anxiety came down with EFTand my confidence grew I decided to test it out. First, at home. I would stomp all over the whole anxiety/ motorway issue. Then I checked a section of motorway near me on the map. With a couple of close together exits got in the car and drove on to it. I did feel tense and a little panicky but much better than before. So I'm kind of happy and kind of disappointed. But lets remember I just got up and went on it for no reason. Something I couldn't have done before.
So now I come back home and tap on the anxiety feelings I had tried to remember in the car. HELLO in pops a memory of my father putting his foot down on a motorway in our old grey Audi and my older brother egging him on. Me in the back aged about 9. Not happy at all but pretending I loved it. HELLO In pops a memory of me driving on a motorway after my anxiety disorder began and very scared and just holding it together. So I jot these down. Keep tapping on the feeling of anxiety/panic/tension whatever. Till I'm nice and calm. Then I STOMP all over the issues that that little drive brought up and that I had just jotted down.
The memory of me driving in a state of panic I feel might be important to mention here. We have all heard that many of us have the fear of fear and that our anxiety is self feeding. Well u just might have to tap on past panic attack memories. Because they might have become as big an issue as whatever your original trigger was. You might never find that and it probably wont matter, as you are now an entirely different person.
I suffer from panic attacks and have unsuccessfully tried EFT. Perhaps I am using it wrong as I am self-taught?
I would suggest if funds permit getting the DVD course from Gary's site. It will give you the confidence to know you are doing it exactly correctly and loads of examples of the sort of self-detective work I mentioned above.
I have been doing EFT with my therapist for a while now and can't seem to get rid of my panic attacks. How did you do it? I have studied Gary's free manual and am familiar with the setup, basic recipe, gamut procedure, etc. Can't seem to make headway. Did you work on your issues daily until cleared?
As you've probably just read. I did indeed work on it daily. I now sometimes go a few days doing no EFT but never a whole week. I love EFT. Does your therapist have a lot of EFT experience? Make sure you are satisfied that any therapist you use knows their stuff. Have they studied it? Who was the course with?
I have tried using EFT for the anxiety and it seems to help al ittle but not much and the anxiety always comes back when I'm in the situation that caused the attack initially. I was wondering if you could write a bit more detailed description of how you used EFT for your anxiety, how many rounds did you have to do, did you have to EFT each individual trigger or did you just tap for general panic, etc.
Answer: See above for some of that. However. At times you might need to just calm yourself down as quickly as you can. I know I have. So I tap for general anxiety but am specific on the symptoms. For some sufferers you might get so good at relaxing anxious feelings as they come that they no longer come. Bit like an easy form of CBT.
In my rambling way I hope I have got over that IN MY OPINION. Anxiety disorder can be very complicated and EFT can do wonders but if you are not making headway you have to hammer it from all angles. All memories. All symptoms. All triggers. Past present and future.
It sounds like a lot of effort but it only took about 6 weeks about half hour a day for me to be doing loads of things that I have avoided for years and to have general peace of mind.
All the best Paul
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