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Pregnancy finally results after jealousy issue is resolved!

Important Note: This article was written prior to 2010 and is now outdated. Please use my newest advancement, Optimal EFT. It is more efficient, more powerful and clearly explained in my free e-book, The Unseen Therapist™.  Best wishes, Gary

Hi Everyone,

Many women have difficulty becoming pregnant and few of them realize that there is likely an emotional reason behind the problem. If EFT was applied for emotional issues in fertility clinics, I suspect the success rate would explode to new heights. This article points in this direction and should be of keen interest to many. It is anonymously written for reasons explained in the article.

Hugs, Gary

By Anonymous

Dear Gary,

I had a fabulous EFT experience a couple of months ago, which I would like to share with you.  As it is very personal, concerns my daughter and a lot of people know me, I am happy for you to use this article - but please keep my name out of it.  

In all the years I have been using EFT on a daily basis, I have been warned by many others that it is not appropriate to work with close family members with whom one is emotionally involved.  Many members of my family have dismissed it as "Mum's funny stuff" anyway.

Last year, my daughter, who has been married for several years, thought it was time to begin a family.  As soon as they began to try, my son in law was diagnosed with testicular cancer - which suspended their efforts for the best part of a year.

Then they began again, but with no success.  I talked with others who had experience of dealing with this problem, and I was told to look out for guilt in particular, derived from using contraception for years, and compounded if there has been a termination of a pregnancy.  I was uncertain if I could help my daughter, so I approached her tentatively.  She was feeling rather desperate, after several months of trying, and was willing for me to give it a go.

I was completely unprepared for what happened.  As I suspected there was a certain amount of anxiety about their ability to conceive, as my son in law had been treated for cancer.  First we dealt with that issue, before I looked for guilt.

In her case, however, there was none, but instead, there was huge jealousy.  She was jealous of everyone expecting babies, including my daughter in law.  As we tapped, it all focused on a lady she met every morning, swimming in the pool, who was in an advanced stage of pregnancy.  She did not even know this lady and had never spoken to her - but hated her with a vengeance and an all-consuming passion.  She hated her so much, that she would watch her swimming every morning and have a conversation about her, in her head.  Until we started tapping, she was not consciously aware of this.

After a session which lasted almost three hours, we tapped away at all angles of the hatred directed at this poor unfortunate lady and my daughter's whole physiology changed.  She appeared visibly relaxed and began to smile.

Then I took her forward in time, to the next morning and asked her to imagine swimming in the pool and seeing this lady again.  She immediately said, "She is rather sweet and looks really fulfilled. How nice for her!"  The hatred and bitterness had melted away - and these feelings also applied to several of her pregnant friends.  The next morning, she went swimming, saw the lady again and smiled at her.  She also felt very differently about herself.

The happy ending to this story is that 2 weeks later she became pregnant and a little one is expected later this year.

I learnt a huge amount from this session, including:

It is possible to work with close family members, if they will give it a try (even though they are skeptical).  Only the therapist’s belief system is a barrier.

It is very important to NOT have preconceived ideas about problems - but to be prepared for all and everything.

When you have found the core issue, EFT works easily and effortlessly.

Is there no end to the miracles of EFT??



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