IN THIS ISSUE - For Everyone:(1) Today's Quote, (2) Esophagus Problems, (3) "Nobody Wants Me", (4) Learning To Listen, (5) Marlene's Childhood Abuse, (6) Articles/Videos To Review, (7) NEED MORE HELP?
For OEFT Course Members - ADVANCED:(1) Our Next Webinar, (2) Last Webinar's Recording Now Available, (3) I Am Deeply Loved, (4) You Need But Healing's Kiss, (5) Newbie's Heart Issues Improve, (6) Practice Group Reminder
Today's Quote:"You are enough."The Universe
The Unseen Therapist At Work
Lesley wrote me that her 86 year old father's esophagus would close up and have to be stretched out several times per year. Not good. Uncomfortable. Many problems.
This problem, like all the rest of our ailments, has one or more CAUSES that need to be addressed. Lesley and I discuss some of the presumed physical causes but soon realized that emotional causes were likely dominant.
Unfortunately, Lesley's father was not cooperative with this "woo-woo" stuff so we had to work surrogately in his behalf. You should find our approach, and all the discussion surrounding it, quite useful.
Nadia is a Member of our Optimal EFT Course Membership and, after an orientation session with me and The Unseen Therapist, she overcame a life-long issue of feeling that "nobody wants me." This is the type of issue that can take months or years with conventional therapy if, indeed, conventional therapy could do the job. Here is how she described it in an email to me...
To remind us of our working session with The Unseen Therapist, we have transformed my belief "nobody wants me" and "I am not like the others."
Even though it was really efficient putting to zero the emotional impact of these sentences, I wanted to see it in motion in real life. So last week, I had an intensive training week-end lasting 2 days: landscape theatre, which is a training about creating art scenery outside.
The challenge for the participants, a group of 20 artists, was performing different actor and creator spontaneous performances and exercises in front of everybody and sharing about the unknown. For me it was a good test about "nobody wants me" or "I am not like the others." It was quite a relief to feel simply "normal."
I observe that this "not like the others" is even not appearing at all in my thoughts.
I was feeling just as everybody and I begin to feel an interesting awareness of a sort of closeness that I did not knew before. An "incident' happened when the leader requested me to change of place (because of Covid rules), the result being that I was really placed far from the group. Of course, I did not like that but I was OK and realised that I was not feeling apart or not wanted or not chosen.
So it is for me a real success and confirmation that I am free of this belief.
Lots of love, Nadia
More: Underlying Nadia's "Nobody wants me" issue are many specific events and issues, all of which need resolution. For example she was raped daily/weekly from infancy to age 17. We explore these issues together in a video and, in the process, have two sessions with The Unseen Therapist. Many insights here. Well worth your time.
Listen in while Judy Rigg gives us the details about how important issues "showed up" during an Unseen Therapist session. The Unseen Therapist is always guiding us... but... we aren't always listening. Thus learning to listen becomes among the most important skills taught in our Optimal EFT Course.
Relief For Marlene's Childhood Abuse (Full "Good Start" Session}
Here is a full "Good Start" session wherein I help Marlene with her parental abuse issues that have plagued her for many years. Note that she had previously tried numerous other therapies without results. Note also how we search for specific events but end up aiming at an advanced "made up" event. Highly successful. Much to learn here.
Our next Webinar: It will be on Sunday, August 1, at 10am Pacific time. It will be dedicated to Members' questions/comments about our Advanced Lessons, Self-Help Sessions, Challenging cases, personal uses or anything else that will help us climb our Stairway to Miracles.
This is where you get live support from me and immerse yourself in both our OEFT process and The Unseen Therapist. Lively exchanges. Entertaining, Highly informative. Customized to you.
This will be a prime opportunity to explore your questions and comments. Write to me about them or bring them up at the Webinar.
Our last Webinar's recording is now available: To access it, just login to your Optimal EFT Membership Account and, in the left hand menu, click/tap on Recorded Webinars>Webinars 2017 and after>Webinars 106-135>#115-Q&A, Bumper Car Exercise.
Here are the Topics of interest:
0:00:00 Gary starts Webinar, Sheri provides an orientation.
0:05:32 Gary makes comments regarding Heavenly Habits and newsletter articles entitled "The Unseen Therapist At Work."
0:07:40 Gary and Sheri initiate a discussion on the topic of "When are we done?"
0:16:21 Alanna asks about Forgiveness. Gary and Sheri respond.
0:30:55 Dr. Shilpa asks about how to handle her PTSD client. Gary and Sheri respond.
0:42:18 Tanzeel asks about possible religious conflicts with OEFT. Gary responds.
0:49:41 Janet asks to review her use of our SHIFT method. Gary responds.
0:59:45 Jagjeet asks advice on a young client with nephrotic syndrome. Gary and Dr. Rutten respond.
1:13:15 Gary closes the Webinar with a recorded exercise called "The Bridge And The Bumper Cars."
"I Am Deeply Loved Because I Am"
Intro from Gary: As we learn to listen to the wisdom of The Unseen Therapist, many important messages appear that help us climb our Stairway to Miracles. Here's the latest from Karen Kelly...
Just wanted to let you in on the most recent message I've received from the Unseen Therapist.
I must be perfect to be loved is a belief that has accompanied me from earliest times. This is very limiting, of course, and thanks to The Unseen Therapist, I no longer believe it. She clearly informs me that I am very deeply loved because I am, not because I am perfect, or because of anything I do. Nice to get this message into my heart, not just my intellect. OEFT is awesome!
Thanks again for everything,
You Need But Healing's Kiss
A Poem By Gary Craig
I have these pains, I am in chains
I do not know the cause.
The pills I take, they do forsake
What are true healings' laws?
Lend me your ear, release is here
You need but healing's kiss
She is built-in, comes from within
The Unseen Therapist
You need to hear, Her message clear
So peace can transcend pain
Forgiveness now, will teach you how
Her Love will bring you gain
With Her as guide, your pain subsides,
As peace becomes your plea
Your love abounds, with joyous sounds
At last, at last, you're free.
Newbie's Heart Issues Improve Quickly With The Unseen Therapist
Intro from Gary:Bonnie Smith-Yackel is a newbie to Optimal EFT (OEFT) and, to date, has only (1) read my intro e-book, The Unseen Therapist, and (2) practiced with the Personal Peace Procedure a bit. Nonetheless, she noticed some impressive gains in her heart functioning and shares the experience below. Not bad for a beginner.
Good Evening, Gary,
I cannot say I have been super diligent in my Unseen Therapist homework, but nevertheless I have been surprised by noting improvements in my physical ailments list. The major improvement I have been noticing is that my heart's ejection fraction has obviously improved considerably. My struggle to clear my chest of accumulated phlegm every morning has diminished a lot--which tells me my heart is keeping up with the fluid retention in my lungs.
Today, for the first time in more than a year, I was able to walk more than one mile without feeling faint or struggling with shortness of breath! I walked slowly, and rested when I felt the need, but setting out, I never expected to walk so far, or feel so good while doing so!
There are more improvements, but my heart's improved pumping capacity is the biggest one, and seems to be continuing even beyond one week. That in itself is remarkable.
Practice Group Reminder: Our practice group facility regularly offers new opportunities to improve your skills. Please check it out in the Membership section of our website.
Note: Please consult physicians on all medical issues.