IN THIS ISSUE - For Everyone:(1) Today's Wisdom, (2) New Book, (3) Unseen Therapist At Work: (a) Mother Issue, (b) Better In-Depth Results, (4) Articles/Videos To Review, (5) NEED MORE HELP?
For OEFT Course Members - ADVANCED:(1) Our Next Webinar, (2) The Last Webinar Recording Is Now Available, (3) Highlights Of Several Cases, (4) Practice Group Reminder
Today's Wisdom: The freest people in the world are those who have inner peace. Wayne Dyer
Marion Bilich, PhD Praises Our New Book
Official EFT From A to Z
by Gabrielle Rutten, MD and Gary Craig (Available on Amazon.com)
"I didn't expect to be blown away by it."
I am a psychologist who has been using EFT for over 20 years and OEFT for the past 5 years both personally and professionally. I was looking forward to reading Gabrielle and Gary’s book because I am familiar with their work, and so I expected I would enjoy it. I didn't expect to be blown away by it. From the very first glance at the Table of Contents (I always look over the Table of Contents before reading to get a flavor of the book and to get a sense where the author is going). I was immediately impressed by how well organized and comprehensive the book is.
Some things I especially like about this book:
It provides step by step instructions for people just learning the techniques that make you feel like you have an EFT or OEFT teacher sitting right there with you. I wished I had had a book like that when I was starting out.
Even for those with years of experience, there are wonderful nuggets of wisdom to deepen your understanding and practice. One that I found particularly helpful is a new (at least to me) daily exercise called Worst Moment of My Day (WMOMD) which, among other things, helps you uncover and heal hidden chronic issues from your past that may be creating stress in your current life. It is a simple exercise with potentially profound results.
Gabrielle and Gary bring up an important point about using pre-made tapping scripts that is missing from most EFT books, videos and articles—and that is that those scripts assume a one size fits all. These scripts are not tailored to the individuals using them, so they tend to be too general to be of much use (and that is perhaps why some people may become disillusioned with EFT?). The authors liken using a pre-made tapping script to going to the doctor with stomach pains and being treated for an ulcer, because many people who have stomachaches have ulcers. Throughout the book, Gabrielle and Gary provide alternatives to the pre-made tapping scripts.
For those who practice EFT and are interested in learning about Optimal EFT (OEFT), this book provides an excellent bridge to ease the transition to the newer technique. It even addresses how to use both in your work. It’s not an either/or; the two techniques can work together well.
Marion Bilich, PhD
THE UNSEEN THERAPIST AT WORK - A SERIES
NOTE: This series is meant primarily for our OEFT Course Membership and assumes a special, High-End level of understanding. However, as a courtesy, I'm including it here for non-members as well in hopes that we might broaden the benefits for all. It should be well worth everyone's exploration. Enjoy.
Toon Experiences Major Shift With Mother Issue
"...an extraordinary, beautiful shift in perception."
Listen in as Toon and I discuss an extraordinary, beautiful shift in perception... a reframe... he had while working with one of our advanced students, Ela Nowak.
Gabrielle Rutten, MD and I discuss the use of Association and Dissociation in guiding ourselves (and our clients) to more thorough results. Dr. Rutten gives some practical guidelines while I provide some other thoughts.
Our next Webinar: It will be on Sunday, June 4, at 10am Pacific time. It will be dedicated to Members' questions/comments about our Advanced Lessons, Self-Help Sessions, Challenging cases, personal uses or anything else that will help us climb our Stairway to Miracles.
This is where you get live support from me and immerse yourself in both our OEFT process and The Unseen Therapist. Lively exchanges. Entertaining, Highly informative. Customized to you.
Our topics this time will include:
Another audience meditation aimed at resentments. Please come with a resentment you would like to work on.
Questions and topics of your choosing.
This will be a prime opportunity to explore your questions and topics. Write to me about them or bring them up at the Webinar. I will be joined by Sheri Baker and Gabrielle Rutten, MD to answer whatever topics you choose.
Our last Webinar's recording is now available: To access it, just login to your Optimal EFT Membership Account and, in the left hand menu, click/tap on Recorded Webinars>Webinars 2017 and after>Webinars 136-185>#159: Phobias, Creating Diseases, Why Do We Age?
Here are the Topics of interest:
0:00:00 Gary opens Webinar. Sheri provides an orientation.
0:05:22 Gary brings up phobias. Some quick relief. Some stubborn. Sheri, Gabrielle and Kathleena comment.
0:36:50 Gary introduces the topic of creating our own diseases. Gabrielle, Bonnie, Toby, Eufemia and Deborah comment.
1:07:50 Sharon asks about how we can discover our beliefs and the topic revolves into "Are there beliefs behind our aging?" Gabrielle, George, Sheri and RickyD comment. Gary closes Webinar.
Member Martin Czailkowski Gives
Highlights Of Several Cases
"Since teaming-up with the The Unseen Therapist, work has become much more efficient, enjoyable and with a number of "unexpected twists and turns"...!"
I am glad to offer some "highlights" from my daily work as a psycological counselor for the past couple of years. Always amazing how many people have done conventional therapies, often saying that they felt worse after a session than before.
1. I was working with one female client who I met for the first time in person, after doing the initial sessions on the phone due to lock downs, and she was very distressed (social phobia, etc., which she did not mention on the phone). Back then, I was using tapping (only very seldom today) and after a few minutes, she already felt some refief, saying "Why don't regular doctors know about this method (i. e. EFT)?? For years, they've only given me pills..."
2. Another round of a sessions with a male client, having suffered from depressions for almost 15 years and being uncomfortable in social situations (e. g. supermarkets, etc.) He was using the personal peace procedure for specific events and experienced relief after a week starting trainig in IT. Half a year later, he was still doing well.
3. Another lady was troubled by certain memories related to her step-father and was supposed to start regular psychotherapy, before taking up a regular job. After we finished our sessions, three therapist confirmed independently, that they saw no need for therapy and she could take-up a job.
However, since teaming-up with the The Unseen Therapist, work has become much more efficient, enjoyable and with a number of "unexpected twists and turns"...!
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