IN THIS ISSUE - For Everyone:(1) Today's Love & Inspiration, (2) The Unseen Therapist At Work: (a) Unseen Therapist As A Coach, (b) Four Unexpected Benefits, (3) A Divine Poem, (4) Articles/Videos To Review, l(5) NEED MORE HELP?
For OEFT Course Members - ADVANCED:(1) Our Next Webinar, (2) Last Webinar's Recording Now Available, (3) Rewarding Journey, (4) Practice Group Reminder
Today's Love And Inspiration: Get the tissue box out as your watch these reunions with returning soldiers and their families.
NOTE: This series is meant primarily for our OEFT Course Membership and assumes a special, High-End level of understanding. However, as a courtesy, I'm including it here for non-members as well in hopes that we might broaden the benefits for all. It should be well worth everyone's exploration. Enjoy.
Using The Unseen Therapist As A Coach
"...often the ultimate guide... or coach... is within. And She is free."
We tend to look outside ourselves for guidance and advice. Thus we seek out books, experts, teachers, doctors and gurus of many kinds. But often the ultimate guide... or coach... is within. And She is free. Listen in as Marion Bilich, PhD and I discuss useful examples of this.
"As I walk in silence it rains on me, the grace of the Master and Divine
As I look around me it feels, I am all and all is mine"
Hi, Gary, Just sharing an experience that I had with a recent walk a couple of weeks back. Had no intention of taking a walk but just listened to the nudge (from Unseen Therapist?) so went out.
As soon as the feet hit the road something….., the experience of presence, divine just started, absolute peace, flow whatever we might want to call it. Was also guided to type in the following on the phone. And what came out below is not typed in just one flow. It was like all through my walk instructions were being given like “stop now,” “type in these two lines and walk again and it happened multiple times.
I had no intention of typing this but it was more like downloaded. So it was walk, stop, type and continue until next cycle and below is what came out of it:
As I walk in silence it rains on me, the grace of the Master and Divine
As I look around me it feels, I am all and all is mine
The inner joy propels me to walk effortlessly
The rustle of the leaves, bark of the dog, the cars running by, all merge flawlessly
The walk on the road feels like a float
'Cause something inside is rowing my boat
I walk with a silly grin on the face
I know it is flow of the Divine Grace
As I was turned left, in vision came a beautiful romance
The moon, playing with the clouds in Divine dance
Like the moon broke through the cloud cover
The persona had experienced the true inside lover
From which flows the true healing
And it says in this world, LOVE is the only meaning
Our next Webinar: It will be on Sunday, January 15, at 10am Pacific time. It will be dedicated to Members' questions/comments about our Advanced Lessons, Self-Help Sessions, Challenging cases, personal uses or anything else that will help us climb our Stairway to Miracles.
Our topics this time will include:
A question about introducing The Unseen Therapist to children and teenagers.
A question on Gabriellel Rutten's thoughts on the "freeze response."
Gary's coninuation on common OEFT errors made by Members.
Other questions as they may appear from you.
This will be a prime opportunity to explore your questions and comments. Write to me about them or bring them up at the Webinar.
Our last Webinar's recording is now available: To access it, just login to your Optimal EFT Membership Account and, in the left hand menu, click/tap on Recorded Webinars>Webinars 2017 and after>Webinars 136-185>#151: lCommunicating With The Unseen Therapist Exercise.
Here are the Topics of interest:
0:00:00 Gary opens Webinar. Sheri provides an orientation.
0:08:07 Marion Bilich provides an experimental exercise to assist Members to communicate with The Unseen Therapist. Gary, Alanna, Katrina, Tony, Helle, Judith and Ann comment and share their experiences.
1:02:01 Gary discusses the common issue to conditioning that we all experience. Sheri and Gabrielle comment. Gary closes Webinar.
Lareen Newman's Rewarding Journey
From EFT Tapping To OEFT (The Unseen Therapist)
"Well, the client said that that 10 minutes was the best thing I'd ever done with her in 6months!!! She felt so at peace & left in a wonderful state."
Intro from Gary: The advanced skills of The Unseen Therapist often require time and practice to develop. But the reward, of course, is well worth it. With Lareen Newman's permission, I present below some emails that trace her rewarding journey.
Email #1 from Lareen: Hi Gary,
I just wanted to write and let you know how useful and perfectly timed for me the previous Webinar was (#146) about Sharon's experience of connecting & asking almost continually for Unseen Therapist's help. This is exactly the point I have come to on my Ttairway to Miracles! So it was very good to hear encouragement from you & Sharon to keep practicing more & more, to build my muscle of trust in The Unseen Therapist & then feel confident to ask her even more, & in more settings.
Most excitedly, I think this has already started to work for me with clients... I had a client recently who's been working with me for about 6 months and loving the changes that EFT Tapping is bringing her. In her last session, after something that happened at home earlier that week, near the end of the session she was spiraling downwards towards her emotional basement again. My reaction was to feel rather stumped about how best to sneak away.
I must have subconsciously asked The Unseen Therapist for help, or She just knew this was the time to come closer to Her, because the very next thing I knew, I found myself asking the client if she would like to try a slightly different form of EFT, ie The Unseen Therapist. I said I was aware she had told me she
had no spiritual beliefs but how would she feel about me sort of praying to, & inviting, in a higher power to see if that would help her, rather than always needing to feel that she needed to have the answers herself. She said yes, so I led her through a loving moment etc, & invited The Unseen Therapist to come and help on everything she would have been listening to during the whole session. Well, the client said that that 10 minutes was the best thing I'd ever done with her in 6months!!! She felt so at peace & left in a wonderful state.
I guess The Unseen Therapist was trying (yet again!) to get me to trust that I can ask her into more client sessions, even those I'm not sure will be open to it.
So many thanks again for your time on these webinars. Big hugs from Adelaide!
Email #2 From Lareen: Hi Gary,
I've now also got a further encouraging update with my client!
In the two sessions since then, we also invited The Unseen Therapist and didn't do any manual EFT Tapping. The most recent session yesterday had a more-than-usual calming feel to it for both of us, it allowed the client to go deeper than usual and come across a significant event around age 2-3 where she "desperately needed to do the right thing but wasn't able to." She said intellectually she probably wouldn't have remembered that event, but it seems to be a fundamental contributing event to her present-day performance anxiety. I'm looking forward to hearing what she notices has changed in her daily life as a result of that session (she is very good at noticing changes). And I'm very excited to see what The Unseen Therapist will help her with next!
Also, a further interesting development in my own realisations and The Unseen Therapist connection. As I said, Andrea and I have been doing a block of 9 UT sessions on each other on a theme, before we swap to the other person. My theme has been clearing blocks to "Connecting more to The Unseen Therapist and to my Intuition," and I've discovered recently that I have some unconscious blocks to connecting more with The Unseen Therapist !! I was so keen to connect to her more after hearing Sharon Clegg talking, but something felt blocked to me really doing that. The latest The Unseen Therapist session took me to an experience at high school where I took on the belief from a terror moment with a dragonian headmistress that "It's cheating to even THINK about asking for help!" - so even though part of me wants to connect more strongly and more often with The Unseen Therapist, a younger part has been holding me back because it feels wrong to ask anyone (including The Unseen Therapist ) for more help! We did actually apply UT to this, asking her for assistance, and I think it's been cleared as I'm now feeling more connected much more often - although aiming of course to be feeling that incessantly as Sharon and others talk about !
Anyway, please share whatever of this and the 28 October email might be useful to others on our Stairway journey together :)
And... please say many thanks to Sheri for her wonderful orientation/prayer at start of Webinar 149. I join her in extending limitless thanks to you for developing and sharing EFT to the world, for how EFT has transformed my life personally and for the many people I've helped with it. And I hope I may continue for many decades yet to, in even just my own small humble way, continue to share EFT and UT with others in my tiny corner of the world, staying true to the ethos of it that you have imbued in us.
E-hugs back to you!
Lareen Newman, Adelaide
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